Ever have one of those days where you react all wrong and end up feeling like a total douche canoe? Happens to the best of us, including yours truly. Let’s dive into the chaotic, somewhat bitchy waters of my Mother’s Day 2023.
Disclaimer: If you’re new here, buckle up. I dish out my life's raw, unfiltered chaos, peppered with a dash of vulgarity and a sprinkle of aggression. Why? Because sharing the real, unpolished journey helps both you and me. It’s all about passing the baton of hard-earned wisdom and, well, embracing our shared madness.
So, here's the scoop.
My Achilles' heel? Unrealistic expectations — of both myself and others. And yep, this Mother's Day morning, I might've been just a tad unbearable.
Let’s lay it out: Neither D (my better half) nor I excel in the kindness department on scant sleep. And my ADHD-brain? Once it’s awake, it’s like a rave that won’t quit. So, when L (the mini-me) woke me up coughing (thanks, lingering cold), my brain decided it was party time. There went my much-anticipated sleep-in day, spiraling into a pit of crankiness.
The situation spiraled when “Last Night” by Morgan Wallen became my brain’s unwanted soundtrack. Great song, wrong timing. Attempting to snooze again was futile, so I grudgingly embraced the morning, feeding the Rover client cats while seething internally.
Historically, Mother's Day and I have a love-hate relationship. Flashback to my first Mother's Day, overshadowed by worry and sleepless nights as my baby battled seizures. A big shout-out to my folks for their support back then — that run and photo saved me.
This year, trauma therapy’s been helping me reclaim brain space and perspective. But today? I was just pissed. No specific reason, just the cocktail of sleep deprivation and old wounds.
By the time I emerged from my self-imposed exile, ready to face the day, my mood was a dark cloud. Skipping breakfast didn’t help. My communication skills were as effective as a screen door on a submarine. It wasn’t until post-shower and some food (never underestimate the power of caffeine) that I could articulate my internal meltdown to D. We’ve both been there, navigating the murky waters of misunderstood moods and unvoiced needs.
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Feeling like a grade-A ass for derailing D’s plans, I braced for fallout. But, being the gem he is, D didn’t flinch. He salvaged the day with an impromptu lunch, aligning perfectly with my cravings, and orchestrated a Walmart adventure with the girls for Mother’s Day gifts, complete with non-roses flowers. The real MVP move? He relieved me of decision-making duties for the day. Pure bliss.

Reflecting on the day, it’s clear: communication is key, understanding your partner is crucial, and appreciating the small gestures makes all the difference. Today was a rollercoaster, salvaged by a heartfelt lunch, precious gifts, and the freedom from decisions.
Navigating life with ADHD and a penchant for chaos isn’t easy, but it’s our reality. And sometimes, it takes a dose of caffeine, a bit of reflection, and a whole lot of love to turn a rough start into a beautiful day.
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Here’s to the unexpected joys, the messy moments, and the journey of embracing it all.
Much Love,
Taylor